A crucial element of self-care at this stage.
"Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we risk disappointing others." - Brené Brown
"Boundaries" refer to the limits and guidelines you set for yourself and others to protect your sobriety, mental health and overall well-being.
Establishing and maintaining boundaries is crucial for your recovery as it helps you navigate relationships, social situations and various challenges without compromising your recovery goals.
Exploring these statements can help guide the establishment and maintenance of healthy boundaries, ensuring they are effective and supportive of your Recovery and overall well-being.
Rate your current abilities and attitudes regarding boundaries.
My boundaries are clearly defined and communicated to others.
I understand and respect the boundaries of those around me.
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I respect my own needs and limits.
I respect the boundaries set by others without trying to push them.
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I am able to assertively communicate my boundaries without feeling guilty.
I say no when necessary and stand by my decision.
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I maintain my boundaries consistently over time.
I avoid making exceptions that compromise my well-being.
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I am aware of what makes me uncomfortable or stressed.
I recognize when my boundaries are being crossed.
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I am open to adjusting my boundaries as needed while maintaining my core values.
I adapt to different situations without compromising my essential needs.
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I value myself enough to set and maintain healthy boundaries.
I am confident in my right to have and enforce boundaries.
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My boundaries contribute to the well-being of both myself and others.
My boundaries are fair and reasonable, considering all parties involved.
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I manage my emotions effectively when setting or enforcing boundaries.
I avoid reacting impulsively or aggressively when boundaries are challenged.
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I communicate my boundaries calmly and clearly.
I am willing to discuss and negotiate boundaries with others when necessary.
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My boundaries support my physical, emotional, and mental well-being.
I am prioritizing my own needs without feeling selfish.
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I maintain my autonomy and individuality within relationships.
I am able to pursue my interests and activities without undue influence from others.
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I take responsibility for enforcing my own boundaries.
I am willing and able to hold others accountable when they cross my boundaries.
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I have a support system that respects and reinforces my boundaries.
I seek help or advice when my boundaries are being challenged.
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I regularly assess my boundaries to ensure they still serve my needs.
I am open to changing my boundaries as I grow and evolve.
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